Second chances

Recently a friend let me know that someone didn’t like me. LOL, jump in line. In this case, it was someone that I haven’t seen or been around since my early 30s. Then I got to thinking about it and found myself agreeing. Hell, if I met me in my early 30s, I wouldn’t like me either. No, I’m actually serious. 

Second chances, or the act of giving someone a second opportunity to make things right, is a concept that has been around for centuries. It is a widely accepted notion that recognizes the potential for growth and change in individuals. However, some people are often hesitant to give a second chance, fearing the possibility of being hurt or disappointed again. Despite these fears, it is imperative that we recognize the importance of second chances, not just for others, but for ourselves as well.

Ahh, second chances for ourselves. I believe this one is very important. There are times that we make mistakes, and for years we hold onto it. We expect others to forgive and/or forget, but we can’t do it ourselves. Remember this: We are not our worst mistake. 

Getting a second chance allows us to learn from mistakes that we made. We all make mistakes, and it's crucial we have the opportunity to correct them and become better versions of ourselves. When someone's given a second chance, it shows they're not judged by their past actions, but instead are valued for their present efforts to improve. This can lead to the person feeling a sense of trust and support, which can motivate them to push harder and work towards a brighter future.

Second chances promote forgiveness and empathy, two qualities that are key to building strong relationships. When we offer second chances, we demonstrate we're willing to understand their perspective and give them the benefit of the doubt. I believe that at some point, we've all been given a second chance with something. When given the chance, people can learn from their mistakes, become better individuals, and make a difference in the lives of others.

You have the opportunity to pay forward the gesture of kindness by giving someone a second chance to help themselves and others. 

What’s crazy is how bad I am at giving second chances. You’d think that I wouldn’t need as much work on this, but I believe I need the most work. I'll strive to be better at this because I’ve had a few people give me a second shot. Sometimes all it takes is just one person who believes in us and offers us a second chance to help us turn our lives around. Because of the blessings and understanding of others, I believe my life has changed. 

Oh, and to the person that shared they didn’t like me to a friend of mine, just know...looking back, I agree with you. 

Until next time,

Gee Scott Sr.